Hard times often bring out the best and worst in relationship. For instance, when two people are mismatched in their belief systems, one will usually outshadow the other. In this case, I have seen so many times with this, one person tries to appease the other, which created disaster. It is so important to never do that, because the other person never will improve, get better. They just metastasize in their filth and never become anything worth anything. It is irritating. I am speaking from experience… it is not worth even trying to be with anyone when the other person is of another belief or persuasion.